You know why you’re reading this blog? Because it’s Valentine’s Day. Regardless if you’re taken or taken for granted, you can learn a thing or two from here.
So let’s pay homage to the hottest love teams of this generation and find out what makes them so effective

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- AlDub – Alden Richards and Maine Mendoza
What makes them effective: They’re funny and look so mushy on television. They beat other loveteams by being as close to reality as possible. They have the ever-present family members that don’t support their relationship, the ‘other woman’, the jealousy, and of course the ‘tampuhan’.
What we can learn from them: If your definition of perfect relationship is the AlDub, you’re in for a load of crap. Granted, they started how a relationship usually starts; dodging glances (parang mga grade 1 kahit nasa high school na), note giving (na kalat sa bag at lagot paglabas ni nanay), and repressed kilig moments among others. But now, people find them tedious, repetitive and boring. Why? Because of overconfidence and monotony, the two big no-no’s in a relationship. If your daily conversation now revolves only on ‘Hey baby kumain ka na? Ano kinain mo? Nabusog ka ba? Ano po gawa mo? Hihi mishu’ please, stop.
Tips: Be spontaneous, come on! You will only live once and you’re just going to ask your significant other what they had for lunch? For pete’s sake, go to their house then ask them to go on an adventure with you, rob a bank or whatever (don’t though), just don’t be bore to one another.

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- LizQuen – Liza Soberano and Enrique Gil
What makes them effective: Liza’s jaw-dropping looks and Enrique’s bun and guns. Most importantly, they have this undeniable chemistry on-screen. Heck, even my professor pirated the entire ‘Forevermore’ series to binge watch it. That’s how effective they are.
What we can learn from them: Looks are important but not fundamental. Let’s be honest, they look good together because they’re both good looking. But on the long run, if you’re going to apply that in an actual relationship, looks will do you no good.
Tips: I’m going to slap you with the cold hard truth; ‘Love is blind’ is true but ‘Love at first sight’ is pure crap. It’s actually ‘Attraction at first sight.’ No, don’t you dare argue with it. You know it is true deep down.

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- KathNiel- Kathryn Bernardo and Daniel Padilla
What makes them effective: KathNiel’s been around longer compared to other teen love teams plus they have unprecedented exposure through commercials, news bites, and scandals. They also portray this easy going couple that’s all smiles and problem free
What we can learn from them: That the power of love will prevail? God, how to do this. Keep things fun and memorable. Enjoy every single moment. Don’t be like those that say, “Hays iniwan ako walang forever.” I’m going to stab you on your forehead with Cupid’s stupid arrow if I ever hear you say that. Don’t go looking for forever. Let’s be realistic , that’s unreachable. Forever love? Pssh. Forever commitment yes, maybe, but not love.
Just. Don’t. Get. Involved. In. A. Phone. Call. Scandal.
Tips: If watching them makes you feel ‘kilig all over’ then they must be doing something good. Plus, like what I said above, forever is unrealistic.
Make every passing moment that you’re together seem like forever. Relationships are not measured by years but by memories and moments. (Mandatory PAK GANERN)

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- JaDine- James Reid and Nadine Lustre
What makes them effective: If you’ve seen ‘Diary ng Panget’ you can’t deny that they have something good going on. Don’t mind the story, I personally find it tedious and overly clichéd. Look at the characters: a working student, who has an overflowing self-esteem that she should seriously consider working as a guidance councilor or a host of children’s party; and a rich spoiled brat, who had been harboring grief all along and has a borderline lisp when speaking Tagalog. Who would’ve thought they would click? After that movie, they went on to have two more movies. Then, they starred in an even more successful tv series, On The Wings of Love. Combine effective portrayals + overabundance of kilig moments + rumors that they’re an actual couple in real life + a huge fan base then you would have a love team that will become the standard of relationships much to the dismay of guys and girls all over the country.
What we can learn from them: Effort and small things can do marvelous things. Paper flowers that you created for days > store brought flowers. Aside from that, do stuff together no matter how stupid and ridiculous it is. Your partner wants to do nail art? Let her! She wants to rob a bank? Get the blue prints! Your boyfriend want to prank his dad? Prepare for a possible heart attack!
Tips: Effort. That’s it. Effort.