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     SEVEN. This is the age where kids start to leave kindergarten with their toys and crayons to explore the new realm that is called school, where children, now called students, are not always allowed to play, and naptime becomes a period to miss.

     At age seven, Kesz Valdez was already helping out street children. For his seventh birthday, he wanted to give them gifts.

     These small acts of charity made him win the 2012 International Children’s Peace Prize, out of two other finalists. Their small actions to help, as said by Nobel Peace Prize winner Desmond Tutu who awarded him, “show the incredible resilience in the human spirit.”

     During the UST-UNICEF General Assembly last Thursday, Kesz shared his inspiring story to the old and the new set of student-volunteers of the university-wide organization after he attended as one of their guest speakers.

The Baptism of Fire

     Cris ‘Kesz’ Valdez grew up in a dumpsite and, like a lot of those living in garbage communities, was exposed to the dangers of poverty and diseases. He ran away from home after being physically abused by his father and since then, began to live as a street child. At age five, after a fire gave him burns all around his body, he was saved by Harnin ‘Bonn’ Manalaysay – also the mentor of Efren Peñaflorida, creator of the Kariton Klasrum – who raised him as his own child.

     “The day I felt the burn on my body was like my baptism of fire. It was so painful that I cried on the dumpsite, on the hospital, and on the days that followed. I cried in pain,” Kesz said. “On the other hand, it was also the day that I was saved. Now I have tears of joy because since then, the fire that burned through my flesh was the same fire that started a flame in my heart.”

     It was the flame of volunteerism.

The Fire of Volunteerism

     Kesz started volunteering for the Kariton Klasrum when he was six, during those times his Kuya Bonn taught and demonstrated to him the value of helping others.

     When he was eight, he realized that children like him could also help a lot of other children back, so he created his own organization, Championing Community Children, to give back to street children in need. “Gusto ko rin pong [ibalik yung tulong] sa mga bata [kasi] ako dati yung natutulungan, pero ngayon ako na po yung tumutulong sa kanila,” he said.

     He emphasized that everyone could be volunteers in their own little ways, in their own simple methods, even without the help of creating associations or organizations.

     He proved his point using three phrases.

ONE is never too young to give back to society

     “One small yet significant difference can change the world we live in,” Kesz said. “Pwede nating patunayan sa mundo na walang edad, kasarian at maging [ilang] karanasan na makakatigil sa kakayahan ng isang tao na makatulong.”

     Championing Community Children is a proof of this. The organization has helped and reached out to communities all around Cavite, which was its starting area, and is currently aiming to reach and help more street children from all around the country. They have taught thousands of street children proper hygiene, gave them ‘Gifts of Hope’ – which contained slippers, toothbrushes and other simple hygienic materials – and encouraged other street children to spread the word, pay it forward and become a champion to their own communities.

     “So, when you see a need, do something and stand up! No age requirement. Make the first step and take charge,” he said, encouraging the student-volunteers.

ONE is never too poor to think of ways to help others

     A person may be poor, but he or she is never incapable of using his or her resources and do anything to help others. Being poor does not remove the desire to help others and block the opportunity to serve. This is what Kesz pointed out when he shared his second advice.

     “While I was still making bad choices, somebody showed me the way and led me by following his example,” he said. Though his Kuya Bonn does not possess an artificial intelligence in a suit of armor, and even though he is not a genius, billionaire or philanthropist, he helped show Kesz the way through his own good example. It led Kesz to his own path of volunteerism. He may not be as rich as other businessmen, but he has helped a lot of street children on his own compassion and free will.

     Being rich or poor does not matter, the act of helping does.

ONE is never too ordinary to be a hero

     The third and the final advice showed the truth behind helping others.

     “I believe that we all have a desire to do good to this world,” Kesz said. “We cry for change, but change begins in each and every one of us.”

     An enlightened mind and heart can help change the world. This is what Kesz wants to prove as he stood before the volunteers, and here he was – a changed person, from a former street child to an advocate and herald of children’s rights.

     “Yes, I am just one, but I want to help make peace for generations to come. One is never too ordinary to do something to help anyone in need. In simple ways like sharing a pair of slippers and sharing the simple knowledge of hand washing and washing of feet can help a lot of street children. These are simple acts that can pave way to change hearts in the world.”

 Changing the world

     As the popular Filipino proverb says, “Kapag gusto, may paraan. Kung ayaw, laging may dahilan.”

     Kesz is just one, but he is a testament that anyone can make a change, no matter how young or poor one is.

     Nelson Mandela, former South African president, said that “Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”

     “Totoo po yun,” Kesz said. “Kapag ginamit po natin yung knowledge natin at sinamahan natin ng compassion, yung desire natin na ma-observe na tumulong sa ibang tao, unti-unti, we can change the world, one heart at a time.”

By Rhenn Anthony S. Taguiam
Photo taken by Denise A. Sabio

 

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The lights that will guide you home

Thomasians started to lounge lazily at the ground, watching the night sky and enjoying the cool breeze of the December air.

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Darkness swallowed Plaza Mayor, as it does every night. Some students could be on their way home, some still in class, while other pass the time studying or socializing inside the campus. But right now, almost every Thomasian huddled up for the upcoming event outside the Main Building, brimming with excitement as they wait for the clock to strike 6.

The crowd fell silent as the Angelus aired, followed up by a reading from the sacred scriptures, imploring everyone to share their light, especially to those who are left in the dark. Silence broke into thousands of pieces as the whole Thomasian community joined in singing Oh Come All Ye Faithful. Emotions flooded the Plaza Mayor, pouring out our feelings as we chanted as one.

“P**** pare, ‘eto na talaga,” a guy beside me exclaimed to his friend. His face is vivid with exhilaration as he looked everywhere, eager to witness the first spark of light.

My heart started beating wildly, the countdown has already begun.

3 They raised their phones to the sky, eagerly waiting for something. Thumbs prepared to record, eyes aimed to wherever there’s a flicker.

2 Excited chatters resonated through the crowd; blood-pounding, heart-stopping. I was frozen, my palms started to get sweaty. 1 Suspense hung heavily on the air—everyone held their breaths, until the University of Santo Tomas glowed with so much brilliance as the Christmas decorations finally lit up. Giggles of delight and sighs of awes echoed throughout the whole university as each and every light bulb sparked to life.

Then something exploded behind me. We all turned up to the sky and everyone cheered—from the UST Grandstand, the entire night sky was illuminated by the thousand sparks the university is known for: its firework display. Although the spectacle did not last longer than a minute, everyone felt the joy in welcoming the yuletide season, the Thomasian way.

After that, the crowd flocked to the field, fervent to see the giant, brightly-lit UST Christmas Tree. People pose for pictures with the outstanding beauty of light work—couples, friends, or even the ones who enjoys their solitude. As the energy started to dwindle down, Thomasians started to lounge lazily at the ground, watching the night sky and enjoying the cool breeze of the December air.

As I watch these events to unfold right before my eyes, something inside me ignited, and like the first sip of coffee in the cold morning, its warmth filled up my numb body; and in that moment, I know that everyone in this awe-struck crowd feels the same: the Thomasian spirit coursing through our veins.

And I know that this is where I belong — this is my home.

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2 Thomasian short films explore queer narratives

Damiles and Perez decided to make these queer films to offer the youth a twist on internal struggles and to encourage Thomasians to go out of their comfort zones.

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The two Thomasian finalists for the Cinema One Minute Student Film Competition missed the mark this year but managed to strengthen the Thomasian film scene with coming-of-age films that tackled LGBT experiences.

 

“Mot-mot” directed by TomasinoWeb’s Assistant Chief Photographer Johmar Damiles is a story about two friends who were about to have intercourse, but one of them backs out at the last minute as he could not go through with the act because of his sexuality.

 

 

While Christen Perez’s “Ikaw/Ako” depicted two friends having the time of their lives but one eventually has to come to terms with his real self.

 

The entry of Perez may initially leave the audience puzzled as it showed two different people who represent one person.

 

Perez along with her co-director, Andrea Soriano, explained that they wanted to personify the male protagonist’s real self – a woman.

 

“Ang dami po kasi closeted gay na judged sila ng society and [for me] kung kaya niyo naman tanggapin sarili niyo ‘di naman kayo mahihirapan lumabas ng closet and isipin na hindi kayo accept ng tao. It’s all about self-acceptance,” Soriano said.

 

Mike Tan who starred in their film believes that it is relevant for millennials because it urges young members of the LGBT sector to accept themselves. “It’s good to be brave enough to get out of your closet [ayun] tanggapin mo sarili mo kasi paano ka magmamahal ng ibang tao kung hindi mo kayang mahalin sarili mo,” said Tan.

 

Meanwhile, Damiles wanted to create a film with a lighter mood. He says he saw his protagonist as a normal person dealing with struggles anyone could have. “Tinackle namin siya in a light mood kasi parang ‘di naman lahat ng LGBT ay nagsa-struggle. Normal din naman sila.”

 

His comic approach towards his film gives the audience a different perspective on queer films.

 

Damiles and Perez decided to make these queer films to offer the youth a twist on internal struggles and to encourage Thomasians to go out of their comfort zones.

 

“Gusto ko rin mag-establish ng film culture sa UST na encourage (sic) lahat ng students sa UST kasi ang dami ‘ring talented dito,” said Damiles. He added that he wants to continue making films in the future and urges his fellow filmmakers to release their material to the public.

 

“Feeling ko rin naging opportunity din siya for us kasi ako, personally, hindi ko in-expect and since nakita ko na madami rin nakakita mas na-inspire ako mag-join ng competition and make more films,” said Perez. M.L.

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Blogcon 2016: Making the best out of the things you love

Once again, bloggers from different parts of the Internet sphere were in attendance at BlogCon’s third year last April 30

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Once again, bloggers from different parts of the Internet sphere were in attendance at BlogCon’s third year last April 30, this time to give their stories on how they started blogging, what made them stay, all the best parts and the hard things they have to endure, and how they reached out to new trends.

At the AMV Auditorium filled with over 70 blogging enthusiasts, fashion and portrait photographer Elisa Aquino (shemakeshimknown.com) recalled how she found fuel in heartbreak to make her first blog. From the sappy ruins of a failed romance, she first stood up as a fashion blogger, providing self-portraits despite her insecurities. Then she began taking photos of other people and sharing their stories. She also shared that our identity must not be defined by a social media fame as she specifically cited Instagram’s biggest lie: that you are as great as your next destination.

The theme shifted from fashion to food as the next speaker is a proud food lover and enthusiast. Jill Bantang (http://www.thefoodscout.net/) shared the fun and satisfying experience of having to write food reviews as blogging is, for her, a way of informing and communicating to people. For Bantang, blogging is a way to actually help and elevate people by giving them something new with every post. She simultaneously satisfies herself whilst giving back the satisfaction to the curious minds of food lovers.

From the gentleness of fashion and food follows the audacity of the next speaker, Andre Arboleda (http://asshulz.com/), also known in the Internet as Asshulz. He emphasized how he personally did not pay attention to blogging trends as the hobby for him provides a wide array of things to do—and it’s basically doing whatever you want. From glorifying underrated movies to making mixtapes about titas to inciting gimmicks, Arboleda sure loves to do away with whatever he wants. He does not consider fame to be one of his fundamental goals for blogging is not a fame game.

Carla Barretto (https://twitter.com/heycarlaaa), a fifth of the PhilippineConcerts.com (http://www.philippineconcerts.com/), shared how she owes what she has today for her love of concerts. From being an avid fan to actually doing it for a living, she encourages her listeners to utilize what they have — in this case, the internet — and let it coincide with what they love.

“Terrible is a great place to start. Take your chances,” she said.

Dipping toes in new water and just go with it seems to be the power couple Anthony and Tippy Go’s (http://www.googlygooeys.com) mantra. They said that knowing your capabilities and embracing your flaws give edge. “There are a lot of things you can’t control but you have to trust yourself in the process.”

“Social Media Princess” Ate Charon (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC32KKtAWv7KLt0wvrEWk8ig) shares that the brand she advocates is authenticity and honesty with substance however light your subject may be. She also shared the dark alleys of Internet fame like followers and like-buying.

“Social media fame is not everything,” she noted.

To RJ Ledesma (http://rjledesma.com/), Philippine Star columnist and Mercato Centrale co-founder (and actually many more!), the Internet is where almost everything happens these days. He elaborated on making one’s irritations to one’s inspirations, and shared how his own Mercato group started with just a realization while he was traveling—that there is no food market in the country.

Mark Anicas (http://markanicas.wordpress.com/), known for his book and Twitter handle Depinisyon, recounts how he started writing for himself and advices others to write for themselves before all else. Moreover, he goes on to break this image of writers only having to choose one platform.

“Explore and be versatile. Hindi pwedeng isang genre lang, at lalong hindi pwede na isang platform lang. It can be Facebook, or it can even be Twitter,” he said.

Alyssa Lapid (http://alyssalapid.com/), Managing Editor for Explore Philippines and Social Media Manager of SoFA Design Institute, shared how she wondered why she was chosen to be an SM ambassador. Eventually, she mustered up the courage to ask and was told that it was because she was different and although she was not as popular as the other models, she was chosen for being herself and for setting her own trend. She encouraged the audience to do the same, to be courageous and a trend-setter.

 

Student bloggers: from a young blogger to another.

Aside from professional ones, student bloggers also shared their experience, knowledge, and pieces of advice in blogging.

15-year-old Brin Isaac (brinraizulliisaac.wordpress.com) brought the delegates into a journey of self discovery and self-expression as she narrated her five-year blogging pursuit that accidentally began upon unearthing the allure of social media. She also stressed on diverting from strong conformity or trends whenever it comes to updating her own blog posts.

“I realized that I didn’t have to define my specialty, my own specialty is honesty. I didn’t have to stress about updating or what my content should be as dictated by strong conformity or the trends,” she said. “I said to myself that I didn’t have to post about this or that. What I wanted to do is to focus on something that needs attention.”

TomasinoWeb writer and literary blogger Philip Jamilla (http://paperbackriot.tumblr.com/) delved into the anatomy of the recently popularized hugot movement which dominated millennials’ digital realm. He also encouraged bloggers to avoid writing like anyone else.

“It’s not always relatability, it’s not always heartbreak, it’s not always love. Minsan kasi we focus too much on the ‘hugot movement’. We should get out of that as much as possible, try to explore other aspects of poetry,” Jamilla added. The freshman literary student recognized the importance of embracing criticisms as a foundation for improvement.

Her passion for photojournalism and her desire to spark social change through her photos constantly fuelled journalism freshman Jazmin Tabuena’s (https://placidoccult.wordpress.com/) blogging journey.

“Parang kapag ginagawa ko ‘yong blogging, and talk about photography, sobrang nabubuhay ka kahit nasa field ka na hindi mo gusto. When you do something about your passion, it feels so alive.” Tabuena also admitted that some bloggers lack the quality of a storyteller nowadays thus, she emphasized on “finding one’s voice”.

Meanwhile, Roye Serrano emphasized the irony of disconnecting one’s self from technology to produce new and vibrant blogging ideas.

“You only need technology when you need to post. To have a good idea, nasa labas ‘yan,” Serrano affirmed. “Wonder about everything, even the most mundane things.” Having a unique “vantage point” or view on one’s environment was also stressed by Serrano, saying that perceiving things differently sets a blogger apart from tons of similar contents produced by others.

“If you want to have a unique idea, you have to look at things differently. You have to exercise your eyes,” he added.   Moreover, Serrano believes that a blogger should narrate a story positively, and learn to differentiate a “rant” from sharing one’s tale.

BlogCon was first launched in September 2013. It focuses on and encourages student bloggers and enthusiasts by inviting professional and renowned bloggers to talk about their Internet experiences and wisdom they have collected throughout the journey.

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