
SEVEN. This is the age where kids start to leave kindergarten with their toys and crayons to explore the new realm that is called school, where children, now called students, are not always allowed to play, and naptime becomes a period to miss.
At age seven, Kesz Valdez was already helping out street children. For his seventh birthday, he wanted to give them gifts.
These small acts of charity made him win the 2012 International Children’s Peace Prize, out of two other finalists. Their small actions to help, as said by Nobel Peace Prize winner Desmond Tutu who awarded him, “show the incredible resilience in the human spirit.”
During the UST-UNICEF General Assembly last Thursday, Kesz shared his inspiring story to the old and the new set of student-volunteers of the university-wide organization after he attended as one of their guest speakers.
The Baptism of Fire
Cris ‘Kesz’ Valdez grew up in a dumpsite and, like a lot of those living in garbage communities, was exposed to the dangers of poverty and diseases. He ran away from home after being physically abused by his father and since then, began to live as a street child. At age five, after a fire gave him burns all around his body, he was saved by Harnin ‘Bonn’ Manalaysay – also the mentor of Efren Peñaflorida, creator of the Kariton Klasrum – who raised him as his own child.
“The day I felt the burn on my body was like my baptism of fire. It was so painful that I cried on the dumpsite, on the hospital, and on the days that followed. I cried in pain,” Kesz said. “On the other hand, it was also the day that I was saved. Now I have tears of joy because since then, the fire that burned through my flesh was the same fire that started a flame in my heart.”
It was the flame of volunteerism.
The Fire of Volunteerism
Kesz started volunteering for the Kariton Klasrum when he was six, during those times his Kuya Bonn taught and demonstrated to him the value of helping others.
When he was eight, he realized that children like him could also help a lot of other children back, so he created his own organization, Championing Community Children, to give back to street children in need. “Gusto ko rin pong [ibalik yung tulong] sa mga bata [kasi] ako dati yung natutulungan, pero ngayon ako na po yung tumutulong sa kanila,” he said.
He emphasized that everyone could be volunteers in their own little ways, in their own simple methods, even without the help of creating associations or organizations.
He proved his point using three phrases.
ONE is never too young to give back to society
“One small yet significant difference can change the world we live in,” Kesz said. “Pwede nating patunayan sa mundo na walang edad, kasarian at maging [ilang] karanasan na makakatigil sa kakayahan ng isang tao na makatulong.”
Championing Community Children is a proof of this. The organization has helped and reached out to communities all around Cavite, which was its starting area, and is currently aiming to reach and help more street children from all around the country. They have taught thousands of street children proper hygiene, gave them ‘Gifts of Hope’ – which contained slippers, toothbrushes and other simple hygienic materials – and encouraged other street children to spread the word, pay it forward and become a champion to their own communities.
“So, when you see a need, do something and stand up! No age requirement. Make the first step and take charge,” he said, encouraging the student-volunteers.
ONE is never too poor to think of ways to help others
A person may be poor, but he or she is never incapable of using his or her resources and do anything to help others. Being poor does not remove the desire to help others and block the opportunity to serve. This is what Kesz pointed out when he shared his second advice.
“While I was still making bad choices, somebody showed me the way and led me by following his example,” he said. Though his Kuya Bonn does not possess an artificial intelligence in a suit of armor, and even though he is not a genius, billionaire or philanthropist, he helped show Kesz the way through his own good example. It led Kesz to his own path of volunteerism. He may not be as rich as other businessmen, but he has helped a lot of street children on his own compassion and free will.
Being rich or poor does not matter, the act of helping does.
ONE is never too ordinary to be a hero
The third and the final advice showed the truth behind helping others.
“I believe that we all have a desire to do good to this world,” Kesz said. “We cry for change, but change begins in each and every one of us.”
An enlightened mind and heart can help change the world. This is what Kesz wants to prove as he stood before the volunteers, and here he was – a changed person, from a former street child to an advocate and herald of children’s rights.
“Yes, I am just one, but I want to help make peace for generations to come. One is never too ordinary to do something to help anyone in need. In simple ways like sharing a pair of slippers and sharing the simple knowledge of hand washing and washing of feet can help a lot of street children. These are simple acts that can pave way to change hearts in the world.”
Changing the world
As the popular Filipino proverb says, “Kapag gusto, may paraan. Kung ayaw, laging may dahilan.”
Kesz is just one, but he is a testament that anyone can make a change, no matter how young or poor one is.
Nelson Mandela, former South African president, said that “Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”
“Totoo po yun,” Kesz said. “Kapag ginamit po natin yung knowledge natin at sinamahan natin ng compassion, yung desire natin na ma-observe na tumulong sa ibang tao, unti-unti, we can change the world, one heart at a time.”
By Rhenn Anthony S. Taguiam
Photo taken by Denise A. Sabio